I really thought I was through with writing about women in
the Bible, not because I know everything there is to know about them but because I had the feeling it was time to move on. I still have that feeling,
and yet a couple of conversations that I had over the weekend have got me
thinking about the power of these historical women to reach across time and culture to
affect our lives.
Anyone who’s read this blog knows that I’ve often claimed that
the combination of psychology and religion have come to my rescue many times.
Seriously, in some ways the Bible can be looked on as the original self-help
book. Granted, it’s not as easy to pick out the parallels and lessons as it is
when you’re reading something like The Language of Letting Go by Melody
Beattie. I love this book and find myself dipping into it on a regular basis. The
author spells things out for the reader in such a clear and engaging way that
you can’t help but see the validity of her ideas.
In the Bible, however, you might have to do a little
digging. Not only that, but after some pondering, you might see that one story
could have several layers and numerous applications. That’s what happened to me
last night as I reviewed the weekend’s events and interactions. At least two of
the many women I talked to indicated that there had been some sadness, some
real “soul sickness” in their lives. Hey, I can understand that, can’t you? Is
there a woman alive who hasn’t had the blues at some time or another?
People have several options from which to choose in combating
their dark days. They can think happy thoughts, something psychologists call
cognitive restructuring. They can turn their focus outward and think of what
they can do for others instead of having a pity party. They can get little
treats for themselves, even if it’s just an ice cream cone from Mickey Dee’s or
a half hour of solitude to read a magazine. An increasingly popular option is
to use medication. I might add that this last strategy is a quick one too,
something that fits right into our fast-paced lives.
I’m fortunate in that I rarely feel down, and when I do, I
can just about always pinpoint the reason. In other words, it’s situational and
subject to change. When I can’t figure out the problem, I console myself by
remembering that with garden variety depression, it always ends and when it
does, there’s a rebound effect in that the next day or the next (or whenever you’re
back to normal), things are going to be especially sunny. You’ll shake it off
and wake up wondering how in the world you could have had such a case of the
doldrums when you live in such a wonderful world.
That brings me to self help of the spiritual kind. I was
thinking of the woman written about in the 8th chapter of Luke in
the New Testament who had an “issue of blood.” She’d had this problem for years
and had visited many doctors in search of a cure. When she learned that Christ
was going to be in town, she went to where He was, not to gawk and stare but to
be cured. She KNEW that He was the one who could heal her, and when she touched
His garment, the woman was immediately healed. I might also mention that she was probably
living in poverty, and because of her condition, she was considered “unclean.”
And yet she was healed! What’s the message behind that?
Today I’m seeing her physical challenges as symbolic of any and every type of
problem that a person can have, even depression and “soul sickness.” Not only
that, but I can also see that it doesn’t make any difference to Him whether you’re
loaded, have tons of friends, live in a big
house on the hill, or have beaucoup degrees. No one is better or more esteemed in
His sight than anyone else.
I doubt if the women I talked to over the weekend will ever
read this post, but I’m hoping that someone will and will pass my revelation on
to someone just like these women. I’m
not saying that books and therapists and meds aren’t helpful; they are. I’m just saying that I had a brainstorm this
weekend!